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Posts archive for: 18 July, 2009
  • Sigh

    I've just been robbed. :(

    I went downtown after work, intending to stroll around some of the shops, before pedaling over to the Hyde Collection to take in the new Degas exhibit.

    Strolling around a little shop, some fairly well-dressed guy bumped against my back, almost knocking me down. He said "Oh, I'm sorry," and walked off. I didn't think anything of it...until about five minutes later, when I felt like something wasn't quite right.

    Then, it dawned on me. Slapping my four jeans pockets, a ball of ice slipped into my stomach, as I realized: my wallet was gone.

    I went to the shop clerk, told him what happened, the little jerk adoopted this "so what do you want me to do about it?" attitude. I asked for the manager or owner, was told she wasn't available. I asked if they had CCTV cameras, clerk-jerk said he (doh) wasn't sure. So, I told him to phone the police. "What for?" :##

    Cos' I've just been robbed you idiot, and that what most people born with some grey matter between their ears do, when they've been robbed. :roll:

    So, the ever-so-effectual city police showed up, about 20 minutes later. A bored officer took my information....asked if I had a description, but since my back was mostly turned, all I could tell him was the guy's shirt and hair color, as I never saw the theif's face. The officer actually asked then, "Are you sure the man robbed you, and you just didn't lose it (the wallet) somewhere?"

    Jeez. I sighed and told him that it was definately in my back pocket when I went into the shop, and it wasn't there now, and it's not lying around on the floor anywhere (I did look)...and the guy did have his hand on my back briefly, when he bumped into me.

    The cop just said that he had my information, and they'd contact me if they found anything. The officer didn't look around, didn't ask about security, he didn't even talk to the clerk!
    I grew up around cops, in my home village--used to even hang out at the station sometimes, when I was young...but these guys, while some of them are excellent officers--don't get me wrong--there's one or two gems in the lot, yet some of the city officers I find an embarrassment, and feel they might make good rent-a-cops, but they stink as police officers. Their people skills are rubbish and they often behave more like thugs or dull-witted clerks, than police professionals.

    Anyway, I just lost $75. That was a chunk of money I'd put aside to pay a bill, that will now have to come out of next week's pay packet. :'(

    The only good thing, is that it was my "spare" wallet, and not the one with all my social security, insurance and other important cards, in it. My "main" wallet has $14 in it as well, so at least I won't be totally broke for the next 6 1/2 days.

    I am not having a good day here, people. :**:

  • Childhood revenge

    When I was growing up, at our little common (elementary) school, every year we had a physical education night.

    On that night, the school's gym teacher would have all us kids out in the school gymnasium, our parents lining the old wooden bleechers against the walls, watching their brats being put through their paces like ponies in a gymkhanna show.

    The end cumulated in a group exercise session--running in place, sit-ups, etc, to an old 33 lp record, playing on the tannoy. The song was called (I kid you not), "Go You Chicken Fat, Go!"

    Also, individual grades were expected to do other things; climb ropes, jump on trmapolenes, etc., and...run 2 laps around the gym.

    Well, I had a unique "talent": I could run and kick my arse with my heels at the same time. I just did it to get some larfs from the other kids (God, was I desperate for attention, or what?)

    Well, I got dared to do it in front of the crowd...so like an idiot, I did.

    Everyone laughed...but it didn't feel particularly amusing to me.

    After, mum only said, "Why did you do THAT?" Dad wouldn't speak to me at all. My sister--waiting until mum was well out of earshot, nudged me and said, "Everyone thinks you're a retard, now."

    Of course, I knew mum would have a fit if she'd heard either of us using that sort of bigoted/rude word, so I yelled, "MOM! M___ just called me a retard!"

    Boy, did she get it! Revenge is sweet. :>>

  • The coffee addicts anthem!

    I adore this group, their vocals are just out of this world!

  • Whispers and screams, formality and wildness: this writer's voice

    Back in the early to mid 2000's, when I was a college student, a couple of my English professors told me that I had a very distinct "voice" in my writing. Voice of course, is, at it's most basic level, your own personality--or, if you believe in such things, your very soul, coming through the words you write on a blank page.

    I suppose everyone would have his or her own interpretation of voice, perhaps.

    What is my "voice?" Not a clue.

    Perhaps at times, it's a bit formal and pretentious? Perhaps even sounding a tad pastoral, at times. That may come from the fact that, as a teen, I had been given that multi-volume set of British Poets from the early 1800's, and reading Emerson's "Essays," I don't know. These works did have a profound influence on me, in my teens and early 20's.

    I'd found a school book from the early 1800's as well, that was full of beautiful writings; not just Goldsmith, Addison, etc., but simple writings from unknown authors...this book held lessons in morals, but, the language used, was amazing! Poetry and short essays--even historical lessons, whose words flowed and twirled off my tongue, oh, it was...amazing. I wanted to write like that! I wanted to use the blank page and a pen as my canvas to paint a portrait of words. I was utterly enchanted.

    Mother nature, being outdoors in the woods and fields around my home, walking besides streams and exploring deep and dark ravines, certainly contributed to how I write. Being out there, in the stillness and gentleness of nature, taught me to observe, to think, to open my mind and my heart to the world around me, to let it inside me for a wee while--and sometimes, those little moments have stayed with me forever.

    At dusk, lying back on the grass of Cemetery Hill, watching the sunset over the low hills of the Upper Hudson Valley, listening to the ever-changing music of a mockingbird, I was absorbing the world around me, and the poetry of the living world, became the poetry of my heart and mind.

    It's not always easy for me to write what I'm feeling tho'. I struggle to hold on to a moment, a feeling...finding exactly the right word, the right flow, to paint my pictures. Sometimes it's there, sometimes...not. I remember reading a quote by Gustave Flaubert: "I am like a violinist whoese ear is true, but whose fingers refuse to reproduce precisely the sound he hears within" (his mind).

    Sometimes I felt that my voice was outdated. I was told several times in school that my writing was too "old-fashioned" for the contemporary world. So, I had to learn to find some sort of compromise, continually, through trial and error (thank goodness for those red pen corrections), to re-create myself.

    I think, for every writer--well, for many, at least--that one's voice is never etched in stone. I'd like to think writing is like a continual experiment. Actually, I fought changing my style, my voice. Changing how I wrote, felt to me, like I was being asked to change my identity. I feared losing the "me" in my writing. But then I learned to give and take a little, and I think it only helped to improve my writing.

    The one downfall of this, however, was that it took some of the "fun" out of writing. I mean, that I had to work a whole lot harder at writing, when I had to change how I wrote to suit the "norm." I really, really didn't want to bend, truth to tell. And, I didn't, not totally. Eventually I found a sort of balance.

    Honestly, I don't know if learning "how" to write (sort of) made me a better writer, or worse. I did learn (sort of) the value of brevity over being long-winded. I do tend to be very long-winded, in my writing.

    In this day and age of "I don't want it now, I want it yesterday, and I want it to be easy enough not to require much effort on my part," it's not a friendly world for the long-winded writer. Modern people hate long paragraphs, or flowery writing. They want you to get to the point, they want to be entertained on every page.

    Well, maybe that's too cynical, but that's how I feel sometimes. Especially when I pick up a book from 200 years ago--or even 100 years ago, and see the football field long difference between writing today, and writing in our past. It makes me sad, sometimes.

    In the last few years, I feel especially sad. I don't feel like my old self much any longer, when I write. I feel like I'm losing myself, like I'm getting out of practice. I get no truly constructive feedback on my writing--not from knowlegedable people.

    When I first began posting fan fiction, a lot of the feedback I got was from snarky people who seemed more likely that they had their heads up their bottom's, then had a basic grasp of proper writing. Like the twit that snarkily scolded me for beginning a paragraph with a quote. What a load of poo! Obviously that particular twit has never actually read a modern novel. (I was just reading a book that often began sentences with quotes, and obviously, if this is an author of more than one published book, it's OK to start a paragraph with a quote.) Duh.

    I was very fortunate to have had a few professors whom guided my writing carefully along, correcting where it was needed, telling me when I was doing something right and wrong non-judgementally, and with genuine caring for how I developed. Gosh, I really do miss that, more than you could ever know. I don't guess I'll ever have that again. I've been left to my own devices now, and gosh, don't sometimes I feel like I've been thrown to the wolves, or am at sea, and floudering in the towering waves.

    Sometimes--well, a lot of times, writing feels a hell of a lot like work. But then, there's times when magic happens; when I'd get a spark, and my pen would seem to float across the page like it had a mind of its own. When my words feel right and nearly perfect--if anything is ever truly perfect--sometimes it seemed, and seems still, that someone else is holding the pen or typing the keys. I look at what I wrote, and say, "Wow! Did I just write THAT?" I am chuffed when that happens...but alas, it is all too rare, I'm afraid.

  • A rainy night in the armpit--or, more boring blather from playwrite27

    It's a rainy Friday night here in Armpit, U.S.A...erm--I mean "Hometown, U.S.A." (which is how my little "city" laughably describes itself.

    Well, if a typical USA town is largely inhabited by overweight, grossly undereducated, boozing, tattooed, Bambi-shooting rednecks in baseball caps and pickup trucks--and don't even get me started on what the men are like---a city, whose heads are permanently stuck up their bums, and who genuinely think the recession is all Hilary Clinton's fault, and that George W. Bush got his orders stright from the Almighty himself, then I guess we are a typical American town--erm, city. :)) :))

    Someone puh-lease get me out of this hell on earth! ;)

    Actually, this is probably one of the most "normal" cities in the states. People live here, pretty much as they've always lived--maybe a few more tattoos and piercings, a few more techno-gadgets, but really, it's not much different here, than in the 70's.

    I took a trolley bus to Lake George pier for my weekly ice cream, got back on for the return trip and stopped at wallyworld (aka: Walmart), picked up a few items, got my hair cut--yes! Nancy G. got herself a haircut--my THIRD one this year! 88|

    You know, I'm 48 years old, and I've never had three haircuts in the course of a year--ever?
    Usually one or two a year was all I could manage--mum used to trim my hair for me, or one of the neighbours. Generally, as far as visiting a beauty salon went, I either couldn't afford it (before Walmart's $15 cut, it used to cost $25 for a cut where I lived--not counting tip), or when I did have the money, I was just plain too busy to spare the time. So, in some ways my life is getting a bit more "normal" again...little ways, but still, it's nice, no complaints from me! :)

    Gosh, it does make me feel good, though, having my haircut. My stinking hair is so--ugh. Can't do a damn thing with it. My farm lady friend keeps pestering me to wear it longer, and wear a hairband in it--but truth to tell, I hate hairbands, they drive me bonkers, for some reason--have done, ever since I was a little girl. Mum used to make me wear my hair in pony tails, then tried me with the hairband thing...used to take it off as soon as I got to school. My hair was mum's nemisis. She tried curlers under a home hair dryer (remember those, back before there were hair blowers? You had to sit with this plastic thing over your head, blowing hot air on you.)

    I got a cab home--he had two passengers. A dull-witted girl, one of those foreign exchange students with an I-pod stuck in her ears, who acted like she was in a half-coma...don't know really, if she was dull, or exhausted, or shy, but she kept mumbling so no one could understand her, and was so out of it, the driver had to poke her once, to get a response out of her, when he asked her a question. I've got nothing against I-pod users, except that jeez, some of them so totally zone out when they're wearing them, that they become absolute zombies. Wow, glad I don't own one. I like being aware of my surroundings, thank you very much. :wave:

    Anyway, I went home the looooong way. I'd just come from Lake George (which is roughly 7 miles north of where I live)..got off at Walmart, took the cab home--which then went back to Lake George...stopping first to pick up a passenger, a charming pensioner from Germany, truly lovely person. Well, we dropped off dull girl in Lake George, drove on north towards the village to get on the exit for the motorway, which we then took south, about 9 miles, to West Glens Falls, where we dropped the little old lady off at a nursing home where she was going to visit a friend. Then, we went north again, to my part of the city (north Glens Falls)..all told, it took me 45 minutes by cab to get home--I live about 3 miles from the Walmart, by the way. :**:

    That's not the unhappy part. When I got home, I found that an item I bought was missing. I paid $7 for it, so I wasn't about to just forget it, as might if it were a dollar or two. I hate it when cashiers forget to hand you one of your bags. :##

    I called the courtesy desk, and they have my bag. They wanted me to come tonight for it, but I still had to pedal over to the laundromat with a few day's worth of washing, so I told them I'd be by tomorrow afternoon.

    You see, going back there, will either cost me $12.50 round trip by cab (to go three blinking miles), or by bus, which would easily take 1 to 1/2 hours (ditto about the three miles). Sometimes not having a car really, really, really, sucks.

    Also, the meeting today got out early, so I work till' 1pm tomorrow...well, I guess I can stand it. God, I can't wait to get off this sales programme and back into collections or whatever. These people I'm calling really suck, most of them.

    Snarky women have such ugly personalities, and men who are control freaks or sarcastic or whingy are just plain infants. I cannot help but wonder what these types of people would think of themselves, if they could hear themselves talk on the telephone?

    Probably they wouldn't think, if their attitudes are anything to go by?

    Well, one more day, then I have Sunday off. We're scheduled to work 8+ hours with the new client for Monday and Tuesday. I like learning, I've missed it sorely.

    Our British CEO ran the meeting again today. She's got good people skills, and can be very gregarious, but still, underneath it all, she's got a bit of an ego, and sort of lectured us on our credit skills. I vaugely get the feeling, that maybe she thinks we're sort of idiots. Perhaps she's right, I don't know. I know I don't always feel very smart. Meh, the day I think I know everything, that's the day I become a republican--bleh! :>>

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