I've gotten to very polite requests via my e-mail. The first was from a young lady I met on a dr who website, asking if I would do her meme. I'm getting pretty jaded with these things---but, the last couple of requests were so very politely worded, how could I say no? I am a person that doesn't take well to being pushed, but you can lead in your direction with simple courtsey and respect.
I respond very negatively to bullying (after a pretty much a life time of it, wouldn't you?), but ask me nice and say please, and I'm putty in your hands, ha-ha. Well, as long as you're not trying to take advantage of me.
I can, in fact, say "No" in five different languages...not counting English.
Anyway, I was first asked to do a meme. so here goes. The other request requires a seperate post, due to the length--and, I'm a bit shy...OK, very, very shy, about posting this particular thing, so I still am up in the air whether I will honour the second request, from someone else--a young woman I met on a writer's forum. She wants to see my rought draft of my play--it's not even half-way written yet, and is rough, so I don't know...it's awkward. People ask to see my work, and when they find out it really is rubbish, that I'm not just being humble about it, they don't know what to say...awkward situation for both of us--and I seldom get true constructive criticism any longer--except people pointing out my poor spelling--which I'm accutely and painfully aware of, believe you me! And my typing sucks, as well these days--sure I finally got a desk, but I've no proper chair for it--found every chair in the house is the wrong height--even the kicthen chairs!
Anyway, to the meme--thankfully a short one. This is roodgirl's meme (whom, despite her name is really very sweet).
WHO INFLUENCED YOU MOST GROWING UP:
My mum of course--she was a great mum, always there for me and always interested in helping me to learn and be a better person. She just wanted me to be happy, which is the best thing anyone can want for another person, isn't it?
TV was big growing up--tho' we only got in 3 stations. Don't laugh--please don't, but one of my big influeces were TV characters like Daniel Boone (Fess Parker), The Rifleman (Chuck Conners), and the guys on a short-lived western-comedy about Texas rangers called, "Laradeo."
CAST OF LARAEDO

Other people include: Neighbours--some of the mum's on my street, my home-ec teacher Miss Signer (who in one of those weird "small world" coincidences, grew up in Massachusetts, next door to my great aunt Mary--how strange is that?)--she was very big on manners, but also first got me interested in cooking. A couple of other teachers, my 5th grade teacher Miss McDonough (who later married) took a personal interest in me, and opened my eyes to new places and things--especially history, reading and the theatre. Mr. Norton, my 6th and 7th grade science teacher, got me interested in nature studies--especially bird watching and tree identification. Mrs. Avery, my 7th grade English teacher, who really spurred on my interest in writing stories, plays and journals, and introduced me to some of the classic authors, like Poe and Kipling. There was old Harry, the gardener for the Episcopal bishop's estate, behind our home. He always, always had time to talk to me. He was tremendously kind, told wonderful stories and treated almost as an equal. In my teens, I got hooked into John Denver's music, and also the "Nature" and "Circles" essays of Ralph Waldo Emerson. But mum was definitely number one, no doubts about that.
That was possibly my longest meme answer ever.
A FAVOURITE CHILDHOOD MEMORY:
Mum and dad taking us on a day trip to Frontier Town theme park, up here in the Adrirondacks (which finally went bankrupt in the early 1990's.) It had a real western style town, real horses and stagecoaches and a steam train you could ride, real indians, a fully kitted out troop of "seventh calvary," that came charging to the rescue, and outlaws--who held up your stagecoach and robbed the bank, and a marshall, of course... and a real rodeo, as well..even a staged "hanging" from the livery stable's roof--hey, it WAS 60's...no political correctness back then. It was soooo--cool. It would probably be like a young Dr Who fan going to a Dr Who theme park, I suppose.
Believe it or not, one of my favourite things, was this real western saddle, that was strapped on to an oil drum, and suspended from wires (which a family member--hopefully not your sibling--would sway and make the "horse" buck. You see it had padding on the ground underneath, and you could try your hand at riding a "bucking" horse--gosh, that was more fun to me than a thousand other mechanical amusement park rides--I STILL wish I had one of those! It really was a blast!
SADDEST TIME IN YOUR LIFE?
The morning I watched my mum die.
HAPPIEST TIME IN YOUR LIFE?
Hmmm--a two-part answer is called for.
I really liked growing up where I did--oh, still lots of bad times, sad times..even horrible times...but mostly, I think I was generally pretty happy, I think from about 1971 to 76.
As an adult, I'd say 2001/2002 were the best adult years of my life. Everything was happening for me--I had some dreams come true, like owning my own home and traveling overseas, and was on my way (or so I naively thought) to a career in theatre or journalism, mum was ill but still stable and holding her own, I'd won an top scholastic award and a small scholarship, and for the first time in my whole life, got straight A's, two semesters in a row. I had a new car, I was able to pay all my bills..I really was on top form and making my life work (Ha! My God, I really was naive.)
IF YOU COULD RE-LIVE PART OF YOU LIFE, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Honestly, I'd just like to be a young girl--maybe about 11 or 12, and going shopping with my mum again...just something mundane, you know? Or maybe on a picnic or to a museum or something. Just out with her, on an ordinary day.
HOW DID YOU CHOOSE YOUR CAREER?
I was desperate, I just had been laid off from my seasonal job--the job paid two dollars more than the 6.75 I'd been making, and, I really do enjoy working with my voice--so I applyed, but being a telemarketer definitely wasn't a deliberate career choice--it's not a career, it's a job. (at least I hope it still is). I no longer pine after a career--it's a dead issue now. My writing and other skills are just not good enough to compete, and I'm not nice-enough looking to compete, either.
WHAT EVENT IN YOUR LIFE ARE YOU MOST PROUD OF?
In scale, it's not really a big thing at all, I suppose. But, it'd be finally graduating from my community college--and that my mum lived long enough to see it. (Dad refused to come.)
YOUR MOST DIFFICULT ACCOMLISHMENT?
Getting through the math requirement to graduate college--took the course at least 5 times in three years. I have dyscalculia AND a bit of dyspraxia (aka: DCD)...meaning it's mentally impossible for me to do even the most basic maths--like multiplication, simple subtraction and division...and not so hot at music and science, either. Finally, by special arrangement, I was allowed to write a math-based essay, instead of taking the final. My last math prof was a gem, and such a lovely, patient and compassionate lady.
HOW DO YOU APPROACH DEATH?
Of course I'm afraid of dying--most people are, it's human nature. But, really, I'm fine with it. We all die someday--some before our time, some quite old, some in agony, some peacefully, but die we do. And, I have learned the painful lesson that there truly are worse things than death, out there.
FAVOURITE OR MOST EXOTIC HOLIDAY SPOT YOU'VE EVER BEEN TO?
yes, I've been to Egypt, that's pretty exotic--and I loved the laid back life in the Netherlands, but you know, I LOVED Iceland. Really. I mean, at first I didn't--it looked really boring after Amsterdam and all that...but, I honestly had a fantastic time all on my own there (everyone else in our college group was either sleeping off hangovers or went on a bus tour to the falls and geysirs---well, I worked at Old Faithful and wandered around Yellowstone park for the summer of '80--been there, got the tee shirt (well, I used to have one). I choose horseback riding, a free seafood buffet and a swim in the Blue Lagoon hot springs. Whoo-hoo, first time in my life I ever truly felt like a "decadent American."
WORST HOLIDAY SPOT?
Well, in some ways, Egypt. But I don't wanna' talk about it.
MOST FUN THINGS YOU EVER DID ON HOLIDAY?
Go sailing in a real wooden Friesian sail boat for a weekend--super fantastic and totally cool!
Ride a camel, ride a purebred white Arab mare in the dunes above the Spynx at dusk/dark, swim in the Blue Lagoon, go whitewater rafting, well--always horseback riding, visted a totally cool museum in Asen(?) in Drenthe to see bog bodies and other really neat artifacts, See the Lower Falls of the Yellowstone, sit alone on the desert sands outside of Fayoum Oasis, just drinking in the scenery and listening to the call to prayer over the Tannoy... Oh, just lots of things--I like doing stuff on holiday...never could get into that whole lay about on the beach bit--I can lay about for free here at home, why go away to do it? Or, to trudge around some corny amusement park--tho' I'd never say no to an amusement park, if someone else was paying for it, ha-ha.